Hi everyone!
here come a topic that really concerns me! People get chocked when they here me saying that I do not like old people (some exceptions to this sentence however). Why?
I would ask the question the other way round: why do we HAVE TO love elderly people?
They are the memory of our family/country/you name it but what kind of memory! A very selective one, as we all have, and most of the time restricted to 1 or 2 moments in life.
When their capacity reduces, they always keep on thinking they can stay home and be independent! How is it possible to be so far from reality? Aren't elderly people supposed to be wiser? yeah, tell me about it!
What I rather prefer to stress out are every day moments like we all have seen, i.e.:
- most elderly people are already retired and have time to do whatever they want, whenever they want (according to their capacity), so why do they keep on going to the supermarket when most people can? do they really like queuing?
About queuing, if they go shopping when the others also go, why do they want to make younger people to wait or to give them their turn? Aren't they there to queue? And if they go on the same time as the others not to feel so alone, then shouldn't they just wait for their turn?
I love when they say that younger people have a hudge lack of respect towards them! That "it was better before and now the society is perverse!" is just one of my favourite sentences. But why do I only hear "dirty compliments" from people that do not have their own teeth anymore?
And why, when they bump us on the stress, they never apologize? why don't they great you first when they see you somewhere? and why do they almost never answer back when you are being polite? However if you don't say anything you will be defined as Rude!
And my favourite one, why do they allways think they have the right to judge or give their opinion about everyone's lives even though they almost do not know them? and give their advise about something they do not even remember?
I must be subjective on this case, but the real question is: why should I pretend I like them when it is not the case?
segunda-feira, 28 de julho de 2008
segunda-feira, 21 de julho de 2008
How to Cheat on someone
Nowadays we are on a zapping period however we feel more and more lonely so when we catch someone it is better to try to keep it! The thing is we allways would like to know wether the other channel is better than ours or not... here come some tricks to help you to cheat on your partner in the way that suits you:
- Traditionnal way:
You meet someone that makes you doubt or think about trying. This is the longest way that might imply the seduction part and maybe some emotional one. This way can affect your present relationship as it is more emocional and the other part might feel it.
The biggest risk about it is that people you meet come from your circles: either a friend of a friend or from your work environment. This means that the other person can try to blackmail you and you might be discovered (sms, phone calls, special looks, etc).
Not that good.
- Little ads in the newspaper: same risks as above just because you don't know who is going to answer to you.
- the more fashionable way is definitely the internet and in this one you have several ways:
* sites like: www.meetic.com or www.match.com, you name it, are just there to help you! You find the pictures and the computer will try to make the perfect match thanks to your specification!
* ads over the internet that allow some contacts before a meeting but it is allways harder than the previous ones as you might not see any picture and you might have no answer back.
Please pay attention to these points if you do not want to be discovered:
- Allways delete those sites from the Review of the computer;
- Use a new email adress to those contacts and do not let it signed in or registered on your PC;
- Never keep contacts in easy access places, i.e. mobile phone, purse, pockets, etc;
- Change regularily your passwords;
- Never underestimate your partner and allways believe he/she can find out!
I hope that I helped you! Now you just have to chose the best way for you.... and enjoy!
Take care!
- Traditionnal way:
You meet someone that makes you doubt or think about trying. This is the longest way that might imply the seduction part and maybe some emotional one. This way can affect your present relationship as it is more emocional and the other part might feel it.
The biggest risk about it is that people you meet come from your circles: either a friend of a friend or from your work environment. This means that the other person can try to blackmail you and you might be discovered (sms, phone calls, special looks, etc).
Not that good.
- Little ads in the newspaper: same risks as above just because you don't know who is going to answer to you.
- the more fashionable way is definitely the internet and in this one you have several ways:
* sites like: www.meetic.com or www.match.com, you name it, are just there to help you! You find the pictures and the computer will try to make the perfect match thanks to your specification!
* ads over the internet that allow some contacts before a meeting but it is allways harder than the previous ones as you might not see any picture and you might have no answer back.
Please pay attention to these points if you do not want to be discovered:
- Allways delete those sites from the Review of the computer;
- Use a new email adress to those contacts and do not let it signed in or registered on your PC;
- Never keep contacts in easy access places, i.e. mobile phone, purse, pockets, etc;
- Change regularily your passwords;
- Never underestimate your partner and allways believe he/she can find out!
I hope that I helped you! Now you just have to chose the best way for you.... and enjoy!
Take care!
domingo, 20 de julho de 2008
The Hairdresser
Women are used to go to the hairdresser. We allways or many times want to change our aspect to whatever reason.
I do however have 2 problems when I go.
1st - they never really understand what we want and some of them love to make what they want to and not what we want! Because of that it happened to me once that I became almost blond and never allowed this lady to even think about touching my hair again!
For me the worse aspect is that I usually go out from a hairdresser I have the feeling that I look like an elderly lady! I allways look at least 20 years older than what I really am! Huge hair, brushing too pushy it is definitely frustrating! Most of my friends have the same feeling than mine and now comes a logical question:
Why don't they change their way of doing? why do they keep on making the same mistakes if noone likes the pushy brushing? why do they want us to look likeTina Turner????
To my mind or at least in my case, the day after is usually much better as the brushing is about gone and this is The day I look much better, better to say : best!
After washing my hair I just look like a rat! Nothing to do with what it could be just... a rat!
Really frustrating not to be able to make a normal brushing or to have a great look when I want to! I am definitely allways looking forward how my hair decide to be today! It is allways a surprise but not allways a good one! But this is my own problem and not the one of hairdressers!
Anyways, if anyone should have the answer to my question, please give me the clue because I am really curious about that!
After such a deep thought I think it's time for me to go to bed...
Take care!
I do however have 2 problems when I go.
1st - they never really understand what we want and some of them love to make what they want to and not what we want! Because of that it happened to me once that I became almost blond and never allowed this lady to even think about touching my hair again!
For me the worse aspect is that I usually go out from a hairdresser I have the feeling that I look like an elderly lady! I allways look at least 20 years older than what I really am! Huge hair, brushing too pushy it is definitely frustrating! Most of my friends have the same feeling than mine and now comes a logical question:
Why don't they change their way of doing? why do they keep on making the same mistakes if noone likes the pushy brushing? why do they want us to look likeTina Turner????
To my mind or at least in my case, the day after is usually much better as the brushing is about gone and this is The day I look much better, better to say : best!
After washing my hair I just look like a rat! Nothing to do with what it could be just... a rat!
Really frustrating not to be able to make a normal brushing or to have a great look when I want to! I am definitely allways looking forward how my hair decide to be today! It is allways a surprise but not allways a good one! But this is my own problem and not the one of hairdressers!
Anyways, if anyone should have the answer to my question, please give me the clue because I am really curious about that!
After such a deep thought I think it's time for me to go to bed...
Take care!
quinta-feira, 17 de julho de 2008
I am Back
| Hi Everyone, long time no see... In the past I created a blog to let you ~know about my new life, about all the changes that happened... it was 3 years ago when I left my friends and country to follow a dream, the dream of Love. I believd this love was Real Love but..... Now I come back, after 3 years I understood that this was not what I wanted, expected etc. No regrets anyways! We cannot regret anything we have done! It was definitely what I belived was right and so I was right to go ahead! Life taught me : never ever regret what you do. Never mind if you are wrong in the end it is allways a good experience and you learn... afterwards Life is all about learning... So I am here and hope you will be here also,to comment,agree or disagree with the little thoughts I will have about anything that will occur to mu little brain! lol This time I will be writting in English so that no need to translate and you will all understand! See you and take care! Love for all |
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